Hey there, fabulous readers! It’s your go-to gal for all things love and fun, Louisa Loveluck, and today we’re diving into the exciting world of bets to make with your boyfriend.
Do you want to make things more exciting between you and your boyfriend? Occasionally, try making bets with your boyfriend. There’s a reward waiting for you half the time, and it’s fun and exciting.
This article lists 31 different kinds of bets that you and your boyfriend can make. You’re about to learn some funny, flirty, safe, and even text-based bets you can make with him.
Consider the bet ideas below and pick the ones that sound like fun. Surprise him by making a bet; he’ll enjoy the friendly competition.
Funny Bets To Make With Your Boyfriend
These fun bet ideas are great because they’re always good for a laugh no matter who wins.
And when you can have fun with each other, there’s a better chance your relationship will turn out just fine. Try these out:
1 “The loser has to sing a song. The winner chooses the song.”
Plain and simple, right? Whoever makes the bet wins the loser can sing any song they like.
Take a video of the show and watch it with your friends to make things more fun. The more ridiculous the song, the better the bet!
When you’re both at a karaoke bar, this is also a good bet to make.
The loser should sing karaoke in front of a crowd of people who love them. Undoubtedly, it will make for a memorable experience.
2 “The loser has to share a private or embarrassing story with the winner.”
This one is great for new couples who are just getting to know each other’s dirty, deepest secrets.
You’ll be building a stronger relationship with your boyfriend even if you lose. Actually, let’s hope you win and learn more about him!
3 “The loser can’t use their phone for the rest of the day.”
If you’re both ready to deal with the withdrawal symptoms, this one’s a bet that’s as tough as it’s funny.
We all can stand to use our phones less, and so whoever loses the bet gets a free exercise on self-control.
Who knows? They might rediscover an old hobby or learn to read maps or something.
4 “The loser has to drink something the winner picks.”
Fun drinking game for you and your boyfriend if you don’t mind them.
Make a bet, lose it, and drink what your partner picks. For more fun, do it at parties or bars with lots of different drinks. You can be as creative as you like.
Stay responsible, of course, and avoid making him drink more than he can handle.
5 “The winner chooses the outfit the loser will wear on our next date.”
Ever wanted to date a clown? Now’s your chance. Of course, this bet can backfire on you, and you might wear the clown nose on your next date night.
Go ahead if you’re feeling daring, but you might want to draw limits with your boyfriend on what the winner can make the loser wear.
6 “The loser has to wash the winner’s car this weekend.”
Of course, this bet only makes sense if you both own your own cars. But this one’s much simpler, right?
Make a bet, and if you lose, you just wash his car—no need to put on clown makeup. He might make you wear a swimsuit, though…
7 “The loser has to drive the winner around town for a day for the week.”
If we’re talking about having your own cars, believe this funny bet. To be the designated driver for their partner, the loser must schedule a day.
You’ll be surprised at how something that may sound like a minor inconvenience can make some wonderful memories for the two of you.
8 “The winner is free of all chores today.”
As tempting a bet as we’ve ever heard, right? It’s just too good to pass up a 50/50 chance of having a day off from chores.
Everyone is happy with the bet, so go ahead and make it. Unless you make the loser do the work of the winner.
9 “The loser has to buy the winner a week’s worth of snacks.”
Lastly, this one’s a fun, straightforward bet to make. The winner lists snacks they normally consume in an entire week, and the loser has to buy them promptly.
If you truly love each other, this shouldn’t be a big deal, right?
Any of these nine bet ideas are enjoyable for the winner and easy on the loser, so it’s a net gain in fun for you both.
Just remember—it’s only a game, so if things are getting heated up or uncomfortably competitive, feel free to call off the bet anytime.
Flirty Bet Ideas
You can now give your bet a flirtatious edge if you want to spice things up in the relationship.
These six bet suggestions are fantastic because they open up opportunities for naughty, kinky fun. Whatever he tells you to do if you lose, make sure you can do it.
10 “The winner gets three wishes, and the loser is the genie.”
Making wishes follows the standard rules. There is no wishing to murder, fall in love with, or bring someone back from the dead.
The winner already has everything they need, so the genie should be happy to make them happy. Actually, there were three of them.
The number of wishes can be raised to five if you’re brave. If you don’t want to, you can just bring one wish. You are totally in charge of it.
11 “The loser has to plan our next romantic date night.”
No matter how much you love each other, you and your boyfriend probably have different ideas on what makes a date night romantic.
Well, this bet will give you both a 50-50 chance at realizing that ideal romantic date night—so why not give it a shot?
Plan a mystery date to make it worth it if you lose the bet. Don’t tell your boyfriend about what you had planned before that same night.
12 “The winner gets to pick what to do in the bedroom tonight.”
You’ll likely have different tastes in kinks in the bedroom, speaking of different ideas.
What about finding out what they are? Prepare to surprise him, or be surprised by him, by placing this bet. All of the above make you win.
13 “The loser has to write the top 10 things they like about the winner.”
This can either be naughty, sweet, or funny, depending on what the loser writes about the winner.
It’s also an opportunity to learn more about each other and deepen your bond.
14 “The loser does the winner’s bidding for the rest of the day.”
This is a variation of the genie-and-three-wishes bet (#10), where the loser does whatever the winner tells them for the rest of the day.
If you want to hedge your bets, you might want to make this bet in the afternoon or evening.
15 “The loser gives the winner a massage of their choice.”
This should be fun. When one partner massages the other, one thing tends to lead to another—and that’s exactly what you’d want to happen, right?
If you lose the bet, give your boyfriend the most unforgettable massage he’s ever had. If you win, get ready for yours.
Simple, right? These six flirty, sexy bets are enough to inject some welcome spice into your relationship.
Make them whenever you feel you and your boyfriend need some excitement.
Good Bets To Make With Your Boyfriend
Your bets don’t necessarily need to be overly naughty or fun, though. These acts of love aren’t always bad or harmful.
Regardless of who wins or loses, the following 8 bet ideas are great ways to show how much you care about each other.
16 “The loser makes breakfast in bed for the winner tomorrow.”
This one is simple and sweet, and it doesn’t sing too much. The loser of the bet should gladly follow through with the bet consequences if you love each other.
You can tweak this bet to allow ordering in if you’re not a particularly good cook.
The smile on your boyfriend’s face when he wakes up will make it more than worth it, so you may need to get up earlier to place the order.
17 “The loser watches the baby tonight.”
This is obviously only for couples who have a little one. The bet can give one of you a chance to show your love while giving the other a much-needed break. Observing the little one can be tiring.
The most enjoyable part? Your boyfriend can lose the bet on purpose if he has been watching the baby a lot lately and is very tired. Your actions will make him love you.
18 “The loser does the groceries next week.”
This is another harmless way to show each other your love. Getting groceries can be tiring, and if one of you will gladly take it off the other’s hands, this is a fun wager to make.
19 “The loser does all the winner’s chores for the day.”
This is a great bet to make when you and your boyfriend share a roughly equal share of the chores in the household.
One of you gets to take a break while the other gets a little busier.
Just keep in mind, though—if you’re already up to your neck with chores in the household, you might want to skip this bet and use the next one instead…
20 “The winner gets to plan the next date.”
The loser doesn’t have to do any extra work, which makes this bet a lot more fun.
The winner gets to plan the following date instead. They might pick a place or event they’ve always wanted to see.
This bet guarantees a date and opens the door to trying something new, regardless of how it turns out.
21 “The loser has to pay the winner a specific amount.”
This is the quintessential type of bet, where the loser pays the winner a specified amount of money. “I’ll bet you $5 that…” or, “I bet you $10 that…” You get the idea.
This bet won’t make sense if you and your boyfriend share a bank account.
In that case, you can switch the amount with a gift card from the winner’s favorite mall, shop, or restaurant. That way, the winner has an excuse to get something nice for winning the bet.
22 “The loser makes dinner tonight.”
This is a simple variation of #16. Instead of buying or making breakfast the following day, it’ll be for dinner on the same day.
It shouldn’t be too much of a problem for the loser, and it gives the winner a chance to have something they really like.
If you want to expand each other’s options, you can make the loser take the winner out on a dinner date somewhere nice.
23 “The loser has to eat something hot and spicy.”
…or extremely sour, or extremely pungent—you can get creative on this one.
Ever had a type of exotic food you’ve always been curious about but never dared to try? You just might get to rope your brave boyfriend into trying it for you—if you win the bet, that is.
Now, let’s switch gears a bit. What if you’re in a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend? If that’s the case, then you’ll need to make your bets over text or online.
Bets to Make With Your Boyfriend Over Text
It’s always smart to push for the next in-person meeting when you’re in a long distance relationship.
The more often you meet, the better your chances are of making the bet work in the long run.
Try the following subliminally to tell your boyfriend that you will see each other again soon:
24 “The winner decides what we’ll do this weekend.”
It doesn’t matter if you lose the bet. You’ll still meet him this weekend, and that’s a win for you both.
That makes this the go-to bet to make with your boyfriend over text—if you could meet up every weekend, that’s a great sign.
25 “The loser has to bake something for the winner.”
For relationships that span long distances, this is a fun bet. The next time they meet, whoever wins the bet will get to share some baked goods with the loser. I hope this happens soon.
26 “The winner picks our next vacation destination.”
I hope you’re seeing the trend so far. If you’re in a distance relationship, most of your efforts should be focused on making the next date happen.
And few things can beat a vacation destination where you can spend several days with each other.
27 “The loser has to send a nude to the winner.”
If you lose this one, you’ll still motivate your boyfriend to meet you soon.
So, be sure to send your photo with a caption like: “Come and get me.” Trust me—he will.
And if you win, well—enjoy the view!
28 “The loser needs to make a Tiktok dance video.”
This bet’s pretty straightforward—the loser picks any Tiktok dance video and sends it to the winner.
The winner can pick which template the loser should use to make things more interesting. It’s great fun when neither of you is a good dancer.
29 “The loser has to buy coffee for the winner.”
Again, this bet invites him to meet you for coffee sometime soon. Like most of the other bets in this category, it doesn’t matter if you lose—you’ll end up scheduling a date with him, and that’s a win for you.
30 “The winner chooses what to watch on our next movie night.”
This bet will make for the next best thing if you’re unable to meet each other soon: you can watch a movie online together, and the winner gets to pick which one.
31 “The loser will take the winner shopping.”
And lastly, you can offer to take each other shopping on a bet. It can get expensive, but to meet each other and spend quality time is worth any price.
There you have 31 fun bet ideas you can make with your boyfriend. There’s at least one for every occasion, so try them out.
Your relationship will be the better for it.
What Are Good Things To Bet On?
Now that we’re wrapping up, what exactly should you bet on? The possibilities are numerous. Determine which of the following categories apply to you and your boyfriend, and practice making fun bets to win on them:
How much something costs
Let’s say you and your boyfriend see an expensive-looking watch, car, or hotel on TV.
You then make a bet on how much it costs. The one whose guess comes closer to the actual cost (You can probably Google it) is the winner.
Who wins in a game (Video, board, cards, etc.)
Making bets can make things more interesting if you play games with your boyfriend frequently. Victory in a healthy competition will make it even sweeter.
Who wins or loses in a sports game
Are you both sports fans? Then try making bets on the outcomes of certain games or perhaps guessing the final score. The one who wins gets a sweet bonus.
This is an easy choice for following the same sport but different sports clubs. Every time the two clubs meet is an evening, you block off on your schedules.
Who can eat/drink the most of something
It should be fun if you both like food. Then, pick a food or drink and see who can drink or eat the most of it. Last person standing (or sitting) wins the bet.
How a movie ends
About to watch a new movie with your boyfriend? Bet on how the movie will end with a friend.
The person whose guess is closest to the real ending wins the bet.
You might want to avoid making these bets in a movie theater, where you’re supposed to be quiet. Do not watch it while watching a movie at home.
Which event happened first
Make a bet with your boyfriend when you’re talking about history and one of you gets confused about which event occurred. Then, quickly check Google for the solution.
Whether a mutual friend will do something or not
When you’re talking about a mutual friend who’s about to make an important decision in their life, bet with your boyfriend on what they’ll do.
Place Your Bets!
Remember, lovelies, the goal of making bets with your boyfriend isn’t just about winning or losing – it’s about having fun, creating memories, and strengthening your bond as a couple.
This article should have given you some great ideas for fun bets to make with your boyfriend.
It’s a quick, simple, and cost-free way to make your relationship a little more fun and interesting.
It’s also a sneaky way to schedule more dates, vacations, and meet-ups with your boyfriend in the case of long-distance relationships.
But be careful. Some bets may make him feel bad or unhappy. Don’t push it; this means he doesn’t like healthy competition.
He may also be too competitive and take matters way too seriously, even if they are small. Another bad sign is this, and you should try to stay away from it in the first place.
It’s best to start with bets that won’t hurt you. If he takes it well, make the bets flirtier and riskier.
You could even make a little tradition with him, like betting on sports games, to get to know each other better and strengthen your bond.
So bet a little and see what happens. Have fun! 🎲💕