Hey there, wonderful readers! It’s your emotional explorer, Louisa Loveluck, and today we’re diving into the depths of connection and intimacy with deep and meaningful things to say to your boyfriend.
Are you looking for deep things to say to your boyfriend? You might feel like expressing your love and appreciation to him, but you’re not as articulate as you’d like.
Worry not—we got you covered. This guide will give you a list of things you can say (or even text if you’re in a long-distance relationship) to him and convey how you feel.
Deep Things to Say to Your Boyfriend
Copy the below word-for-word if you spot something you can relate to 100%.
Otherwise, it’s fine if you need to tweak a word here or there. Let him know how you feel about him, after all, that is the goal.
1. You know the worst part of being single for me?
That’s for sure—being alone. Those cold, lonely nights when I couldn’t fall asleep, wondering if I’d ever meet anyone. Someone up here must really like me because you walked into my life like that.
2. We’ve been through a lot, haven’t we?
We’re still next to each other even though we’re very hurt. I feel so lucky that our paths crossed, and I can’t wait to see what obstacles we’ll have to overcome next.
3. I’ll be honest — I didn’t overthink of our relationship when we first started.
I thought for a while it would be fun. It was time for us to go our separate ways. I was completely wrong. You have made me the luckiest person alive and the happiest woman in the world.
4. I was never a spiritual person, but my entire life changed when I met you.
There are no two ways to describe how you made my life beautiful. I believe there is a God who sent you because he cares about me that much.
5. Here’s a hot take. I love you for who you are, but I love you even more because of who I am with you.
I’m happier, more open and honest, and more generous when together.
Only you have that effect on me and no one else in the world, and I hope you know that.
6. I used to wonder how some people could write novels.
From where do they get their ideas? With just one story, how do they fill hundreds of pages? I thought, “Ah, so that’s how,” as you walked into my life.
7. Is Heaven a place on Earth? It sure is when I’m with you.
When I’m in your arms, I let go of all my worries and hurts, and I know deep inside that everything’s okay, and everything will be alright. You’re such an incredible man, and more—you’re an angel.
8. Sometimes I feel the world has gone totally mad.
Everyone is being so mean to each other. Each person is on their own. I’m so glad that some people, just like you, are kind, loving, and hopeful despite everything. I can definitely say that you rubbed off on me, and I love you.
9. You know what I feel like when I’m with you?
I’m like a balloon. I’m all filled up with your love, and it feels like I’m floating. So just be sure to tie me to your wrist — I don’t wanna fly too far away, now!
10. Think about that moment in life when you can tell yourself, “Yup, I have everything I need.
There’s nothing more I want”? Guess what — I have those moments often when I’m with you. Especially when you tell me I’m beautiful.
11. I feel most loved whenever you hold me in your arms.
Your tight embrace makes me feel protected and loved. Every woman wants that in life, but few ever find it, I think you should know that. You are a lucky person for me.
12. It’s amazing how happy we are, even though things are far from perfect.
It’s actually a mess sometimes. But, you know, I think that’s what we have — a perfect mess — and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
13. My heart skips a beat every time I see you, even if we’ve been together for quite a while.
It’s weird — it’s like I keep falling in love with you repeatedly. I can’t stop thinking of you.
So I hope you don’t mind if I act like a giddy first-time girlfriend whenever I’m with you.
14. You know the hardest question for me to answer?
What I Like About You Best. I can’t pick just one aspect of you because I love so many. Therefore, you now know what to ask me if you want to give me a difficult time for any reason!
15. For some people, the ocean is their happy place.
For others, it’s the mountains. What’s yours? For me, it’s simple — it’s wherever you are. So that’s my happy place and I hope I’m yours, too.
16. Whenever I think I can’t love you more than I do now, you surprise me.
You give me yet another reason to love you more. I feel blessed to be the apple of your eye, and I hope I make you happy, too.
17. Can I say something controversial? I don’t think masculinity is toxic.
I think it’s beautiful how you work so hard, struggling against society’s hypocrisy and your own weaknesses.
You put so much effort into what matters to you, and I love that. I hope you always remember I’ll be here for you no matter what.
18. You know what I like most about me?
It’s the fact that I won your heart and no other woman has. So forgive me if I allow myself a bit of pride with that achievement — trust me, you’re a catch.
19. Your smile has power, you know that?
Just one smile from you instantly makes the day better for me. My problems are a little lighter, my future a bit brighter. That’s your power over me; I love every bit of it.
20. You’re my motivation. I see how hard you work and how dedicated you are to our future.
I get up every morning to match your drive, and it carries me through even the toughest days. I can’t wait to spend forever with you.
21. When I woke up this morning, the first thing I saw was your face.
I knew it would be a good day after that. I can’t take you out of my mind right now. There is absolutely nothing that can change my mind about how amazing you are a boyfriend.
22. I can’t help but smile whenever I think of you.
And that’s crazy, because nothing makes me do that- not even puppies, pandas, or comedy shows. You cross my mind, I crack a smile. It’s nuts.
23. The future can be scary, you know? I sometimes worry if I’ll achieve all my goals in life.
Thankfully, I met you. And you taught me just to do my best and let things work themselves out.
Since then, I’ve always looked forward to the future — especially since I know you’ll be in it.
24. You know what? My life was a void before our paths crossed.
I got by just fine, but something was always missing for me.
I’m glad I found you, because you were that missing piece. Since then, I’ve never felt alone, hopeless, or loveless… And it’s all thanks to you.
25. Whenever I remind myself to be thankful, I always think of you.
Then I remember how many people live their lives without finding true love, and here I am with you. It’s hard to be ungrateful when you know that.
26. You know what I wish? I wish you could feel what you make me feel.
You never stop loving me and are always there for me when I need you. I wish I make you feel even just a semblance of that.
You’re the best boyfriend any girl could ever hope for.
27. I’ve always had trouble being myself around other people.
I always felt the need to conform and people, not step on anyone’s toes.
But since I met you, I learned there’s so much more truth, joy, and beauty in being myself, warts and all.
I’m glad you taught me how to be myself.
28. In the past, I wanted to become a millionaire, tour the world, live in a mansion…
That sort of thing. Then I met you and realized that so much happiness could be found by loving and being loved back.
It’s the best feeling in the world, and you’re an incredible man. I love you!
29. Do you believe in soul mates? I never did — that is, until I met you.
That we’re not soul mates is hard to believe because our souls are so well matched. I hope you feel the same way about us because we are destined to be together.
30. There are so many lonely people out there who can’t find love no matter how hard they try.
That’s why it’s my daily prayer that they all get blessed enough to find what I found in you — true, unconditional, relentless love.
Together, I hope we help others find more happiness in their lives, too.
31. It’s crazy how you’re the last thought on my mind when I go to bed and the first person I think of when I wake up.
I’m addicted to you, and it’s the sweetest thing ever. I hope you don’t mind me admitting it.
32. Looking back at our relationship over the years, I shudder when I think of one possibility.
Where would I be now if I never met you? I can’t bear to think about it. But, now that I have you, I’ll never let you go.
33. I love spending time with you.
The entire world is so much happier and safer when I’m with you. You’re my safe space and I love you for that.
34. I love you. No one’s ever going to replace you in my heart.
We’ve gone through our ups and downs, but I wouldn’t trade our relationship for anything in the world.
35. I love the way you make my heart dance.
I’m in ecstasy with just one smile, one sweet word, and one touch. No one else makes me feel that way, and I hope I make your heart dance, too.
36. If you ever wonder why I keep telling you I love you,
It’s because I want to tell the world who I am, and my world is you. So… You are my love. You have the best boyfriend ever.
37. It’s crazy how you make me feel.
You make me feel like a queen — beautiful, cherished, and respected. No one has ever made me feel this way, and it’s why I’ve fallen so madly in love with you.
38. Quick question. If you could be stranded on a desert island with one other person of your choosing, who would it be?
You’re my only choice — I’d love to see you tanned and shirtless every morning.
And there you have it—38 deep things to say to your boyfriend. Again, feel free to use them verbatim or edit them to make it more personal and relevant.
Remember, lovelies, expressing your feelings and appreciation for your boyfriend is key to nurturing a strong and healthy relationship.
Whether you choose to say these phrases aloud, write them in a heartfelt letter, or whisper them softly in your boyfriend’s ear, let your love and admiration shine bright.
Here’s to deepening your connection and creating beautiful memories together! 💖✨